okay so don't say you are at her mercy. And don't be. She wants an "effortless emotional connection"...
okay I laughed out loud at that one. Hey, if she finds that and it lasts, let her have it. She wants a relationship that is effortless?... um, ME TOO!!!
I've never heard of that stage lasting much beyond a few months but you can't compete with thought processes like that. OMG Don't even bother!
Max out on GAL, making your authentic changes, and being there for s4.
Go to that workshop I told you about ASAP--it'll do more for your PMA and GAL than anything else I know of,
and that's it!
Leave the results up to God.
Enough about her and wanting to die b/c a 35 y/o woman doesn't know how idiotic she sounds and she's going to be with a 40 something in the same boat?
Sooo not worth crying about.
I know you love her. But her head's on sideways right now and you can't fix that.
Behave with utmost dignity and grace and STRENGTH, NO Pursuit at all....at all....
let her wonder. In time...she will wonder...UNLESS you keep pursuing and then she'll know you are still there waiting around.
See the L, and if nothing else it'll tear her up/pressure her to compromise- knowing there IS AN ISSUE in dispute
b/c you were the primary caretaker and it's supposed to be about the best interests of the child in all 50 states...
She's not leaving you for a man- so I fail to see how being gay is relevant.
You both are...she's leaving you for OW...(hello? "Your honor, they're ALL gay, so why does that matter?")
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
