Regretful and not sure how to proceed

[In_Shock]

michael -- like JB said, a lot of us did that whole trying too hard thing. It strikes me as kind of a silly reason to be angry at someone. I kinda wish for once someone would try too da** hard to please ME!! Know what I mean?

I was treating her the way I wanted to be treated. Cards, gifts, 'are you ok?' 'tell me about your day' and all that. When she wanted --- well, what???? She says an effortless emotional connection. Hel*s bells....Everyone I tell this to says ---- WHAT in the world did she mean??? I always say....IF i had known what she meant, i might have had a chance.......

Hang in there michael. I will go read your sitch and check on you. Yes, so many of us are in the same boat of Sh@@!!!! It's really sad for the kids.