Are any of those, things you think you should address for YOU ?
The OM being around....that is a hard one to stomach, and I understand your pain there...
This OM....there IS a chance that this person could potentially be in your children's lives for a long time....
It is normal and actually healthy to feel that anger towards him because he gets to do some things with your children....
But he is a choice that your spouse has made, and once you move down the path a little further, and understand what it means to fully accept your wife's actions and choices, you will feel differently..
I know that you may feel justified in talking smack about him in front of your children....
Don't do it man....
Don't show them how to hate him , and eventually their Mother..
I'm not saying to send them a nice warm and fuzzy Christmas card or anything....just think of what your words and actions say before you act on them...
MLC......
It's a hard , long road , with MANY turns and twists that can sneak up on you quick...
Ultimately, it is your decision on whether or not you stand....You are here, so that is your choice...
Go back and read your post from 8-25-2011 and most of your answers are in there..VERY GOOD POST ...
Maybe think about what stings and what doesn't sting...think about how YOU want to respond or better yet...not engage her in these discussions....
Remember...None of what they say, and half of what they do...
