“Omg, you are such a loser! You are rotting away in your fathers retirement home and you are not even man enough to get a second job to get your own apartment. I hate you! I don’t want to look at you, hear from you, nor be near you!”
Not to much to offer today man. I think in truth your wife IS a teenager in a grown up body right now.
Now for you...keep in mind PERCEPTIONS are not reality, that your w, has no inkling of what you've got to contend with nor the capacity at this time to care or even really understand. She's on the outside looking in.
My reply to the above: " Stop with the name calling and insults w it's uncalled for. We are both adults. You've made your opinion very clear to me. It's unfortunate, but I understand your perception."
My two cents. FWIW
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.