Its apparent that my wife now has OM. She is bringing him before my kids and they are spending allot of time together. She is rubbing this guy in my face by driving up to her house with him in her car and having him answer her phone when I call. When I react, she puts on this HUGE act that she’s a victim and she gets the kids to ask me why am I reacting the way I do. We just had a huge shouting match on the phone and she started going off and telling the kids what a horrible person I am.
The OM is 25 years old. W is 38. She says he is just a FRIEND and that he is very good with her and the kids. Yeah right!
The argument started this morning when she told me that she signed up my 13 year old to her gym. This was planned for him and I. I later discovered that OM goes to that gym and it appears that she wants him to train my son.
She doesn’t allow me to in her home to play with my kids, but she lets OM go in and do so.
I really thought I was seeing some light but now, OM is bomb drop #2!
Her and I have allot of text battles. Yes, I know, I shouldn’t do it. But Im really trying to not have her bait me. So, she is showing the kids all the texts. I have COUNTLESS text of my wife calling all sorts of horrors but I would NEVER show those to the kids!
Currently W is not working. Going to school full time. Clubbing, skating, and now, hanging with OM. Basically living the life of a careless teenager. Ive been trying to honor her buy supporting her while she doesn’t work but I get nothing but continuous venom spewing and hatred.
I’m still living with dad for a couple of reasons…
He is showing signs of Alzheimer’s. He is a high risk for falls and I’m trying to save to get my own place. A big chunk of my $ has been going to W to help her with the bills at her house while she doesn’t work. Not only am I paying child support, but I’m doing extra stuff as well.
Here’s the thanks I got from her just the other day after she asked for more $…
“Omg, you are such a loser! You are rotting away in your fathers retirement home and you are not even man enough to get a second job to get your own apartment. I hate you! I don’t want to look at you, hear from you, nor be near you!”
Well guys, to be honest with you. I’ve considered taking on a second job. However, that would mean less time with my kids and my church counts on my serving for allot of things. And dad needs me there as well.
Any advice? Is this still the “replay monster”?
Do they REALLY get this bad?
Have a wonderful weekend!
Me: 37 W: 37 Married Feb 14 1997 Seperated Thanksgiving weekend 2010 No divorce filed yet 1st born son:13 2nd daughter:9 3rd son:4 Trying hard to detach
