I remember reading someone wrote on here one time that they hadn't read any stories that sounded like the sitch was so serious/bad that it was worth ending a R over. I really really really didn't know what to do --- One of her complaints is that I 'tried too hard'. She can't see that I was trying so hard to please her and make her happy. If I had not cared, I wouldn't have tried........ I'm trying to keep myself together, but I'm not doing well at all right now. Not well at all.
I got that too. I tried too hard. I used all her love up. I was really just trying to please her. She talks about arguments. We never had any until w started talking D. I'm not doing well at all either. Read my most from today. I just keep looking for hope and answers and there isn't any. I certainly can empathize with your sitch. There are so many on here that are similar in that there is really no good reason to end the r. Feeling sad, depressed and hopeless right now. Weekends are the best though because I spend them with the kids.
