Val, your growth is amazing. I think you have done so much hard work on yourself. I always read your posts.

If you get a chance, go check out mine. I could use your insight in addition to all the great insight I get over there (25 years is a true fountain of wisdom!!). I guess since u and I are both in same sex R, i was wondering if you had anything to add to my sitch. Right now I'm thinking i'm hitting a rock bottom... and not sure how/if I'll make it through.


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed