One of her complaints is that I 'tried too hard'. She can't see that I was trying so hard to please her and make her happy.
I think a lot us here have made that mistake, myself included. One thing is you can't make her happy. It's not your job. It's her job. Secondly, you probably lost yourself in the process. That's not attractive. This is now a time to find yourself again. Re-discover and re-invent the person your W fell in love with in the first place. Become the better option.
