I_S. I am so sorry this is going on for you right now. ((()))
Originally Posted By: In_Shock
....but acknowledges my positive changes === WTH???? Says I just can't be what she needs.
I've heard this almost verbatim before - it was the night of bomb #2. She is truly "in love" right now and "in love" with everything that comes with it. Reality will eventually come crashing down on her, when this dream of smoke dissapates.
Fight for your S. This is the kind of thing that infuriates me. It's unbelievable the wayward spouse can get away with this. It's definitely not the best thing for your S. You're the one providing a stable home and your W wants to drag your S along on her misadventure. Do everything in your power, and I know you can and will, to fight for your S.