The problem isn't that there is no sex, the problem is that these women see no value in sex.
I think that's exactly right. If you've never had an O yourself, how could you possibly understand another person's seeming obsession with just rubbing oneself into a state of pleasure? It's almost comical if you think of it that way. And so she knows this is something I can do by myself. And she knows she's providing me comfort and companionship is many other ways. And she knows guys often are quite happy with a Playboy magazine alone in a bathroom -- goodness knows she observed that growing up with her brothers. So I don't think she'll really ever understand.
