But imo, I SOMETIMES think mb is wrong if it decreases the sex drive of the person, AND then their partner is deprived of it later on b/c the person already took care of their own needs...
Make sense?
Yeah, I agree with that. I would have saved myself for someone who wanted it. That would be a new experience for me, to say the least.
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Perhaps she felt oddly uncomfortable knowing you were on your own 90% of the time, & thinking of whomever....idk.
Maybe long ago, but not now. This is the woman who gives me Palyboy type calendars as Christmas gifts and has told me why can't I just take care of myself?
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You said there was no physical touch. But then you said There IS cuddling and kissing BUT THEN you said she resents you getting interested or fears you'll get aroused,
I was recently talking about 30 years ago. Earlier I was talking about now. No physical sexual touch ever, besides intercourse. Hugging always. Massage OK, but never led to anything else. Intercourse was OK at first, then it thinned out, then mostly just HJ's, then even that got tiring (understandably, she gets nothing out of that, really).
