I have a Q...

My h took up smoking... he knows I know he smokes. I've seen the pack in the car... and I don't make a big deal of it. He once said he felt ashamed about his smoking.

I know about it.. I don't really care about it, so why does he continue hiding the packs of cigs?

I have NOT snooped! I promise. But I can smell it real strong in the garage and car.

Is he hiding it because that's his way of being in control, to hide things from me?

I also promise I won't say a word about it to him. I'm learning the hard way.