Are there any midlife women who want daily sex?

[25yearsmlc]

well Captain I understand the venting. Strikes me as very sad.


At DB land, we are trying to help m's...

The premise is solution based, w/the simple but radical idea that one should

do what helps the m, and less or none of, what hurts it.


and this all just sounds damn tragic to me.

Are you sure your w's wouldn't change something if they KNEW how you really truly felt?

ANd if your answer is, "25, SHE knows...she just doesn't care" then I guess

I think it's more than just low libido.

I have had low libido temporarily--so I say this from experience post partum for a several months after d1, and again after my father's death.

But we still ML...

so honestly while I DO get the Lack of interest, for awhile

(and assume it's like that for them all the time)

b/c like I said, even when mine was hormonally low or emotionally low,

we still ml. Mostly b/c I know IT matters to h.

How can it not?

I'm left with the feeling it's very selfish or naive of your w's to withold this, or there's something else going on.

But if you are alright with it, so be it.

If you want advice on how to change it, we can try.

If you want to vent, so be it. Do you feel that helps the marriage?