My family has fallen apat. i didn't think she would really do this, - says she feels that by living with me she's cheating on OW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WTF???????????
Oh yes, yes! My H said this too when he left me in 2008 for OW#1. I tried to kiss him, seduce him.. anything (fool that I was) and he said he couldn't because he'd be cheating on the person he loved... OW#1.
Their relationship lasted four months after having moved in together. :S
But back to you... Oh my gosh.. I am so sorry to hear this, Shock.. I feel so much empathy for you. Everything you are saying rings familiar. I am so sorry... but I'm not surprised that she had an exit planned. Our situations really seem to mirror each other. Thank goodness for anti-depressants, I say..
Again.. I am so sorry. This is the hardest part you'll have to get through but YOU CAN DO IT! I know you can! If I can do it then by law, you can do it too.
Try to list some of the pro's about her moving away... don't focus on the cons (hard, I know) but list out a few pros.. just a couple. Think of it as homework... I'll start you out with one.
1) You won't have to be in the same house as that awful texting anymore.
That one is on my pro list! It is such a relief to not have the affair in my face. It was nearly impossible to GAL with it there.
Come back to us! Post often.. and read everything 25 posted twice. I know I will.
My H said this too when he left me in 2008 for OW#1. I tried to kiss him, seduce him.. anything (fool that I was) and he said he couldn't because he'd be cheating on the person he loved... OW#1.
