Your pain is deep but not fatal and it will last awhile but it is NOT eternal.
Stop saying you are going to die. (Well, we all are, but you know what I mean)
See a Lawyer asap. Don't argue about that, just get it totally clarified. Geez, maybe make your case a landmark one b/c it's not straight versus gay
it's primary caretaker versus non custodial parent... That's the issue, what is best for HIM, not her or gay or blah blah blah.
And realize that you need to relax, step back and give her some space. NO PURSUIT... read those rules again.
Let her have all the rope she wants and then drop it.
At least it'll be easier to go dark. No contacts except picking s4 up and you'll look great then and you will BE UPBEAT AND MYSTERIOUS
and she won't let on...but she will notice...
IF she moves into a house with OW that fast and takes s4 --you may even have a greater case b/c you are providing the stable home, not her.
Leave her to her "task" of discovery. Fight for your son. Do your program of changes you wanted to do anyhow. And detach from her. Do NOT let her actions determine your happiness.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
