What if you didn't do much to contribute to the demise? I ask because weren't you about to renew your vows? Didn't this same person profess her undying love for you just prior to walking away?
Well, I know I played my part, but I am certainly not ALL to blame. As for our wedding vows, yeah she had already purchased the dress. We were two months away from renewing them when she told me that she didn't want to. Of course, she blames me for not wanting to.
I've done a lot of thinking recently and I'm starting to realize just how selfish, angry and bitter W really is. She is a very bitter person, but I can't, for the life of me, figure out why.
Trusting, I'm glad you said this about her text message:
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It really does not deserve a response. It is a typical MLC text to relieve some of HER guilt.
I've thought about this too and the more I do, I realize that it was basically HER justifying HER actions and trying to make herself feel better. It's like she is almost defending herself.
No other updates.....
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
