OK so tonight at dinner she starts talking about our relationship again. Now she's going back to before she was pregnant, remembering all the bad times and convincing herself she was really unhappy then. We were always together, always laughing, very happy and very much in love during that time.
So is it best to just listen and nod and say nothing to correct her (even though she's forgetting?)?
Also, she is rewriting all of the negative things that happened and deleting her part in it (She spent the better part of 3 years screaming at me non-stop and was severely emotionally abusive). I've gotten over it but now her version of the story is that she was a 100% victim and has deleted all of the abusive things she did to me.
So same thing, just let her talk and tell her how sorry I am (which I did) and don't engage in an argument?
BTW - I am using Last Resort tactic right now because it is clear she is done-done.
