Huh, and found out today she's planning on being there in person with her (much older) sister for moral support. This is going to be a lot rougher than expected (she sent me this letter with a very chirpy "hope you're doing well!" as if my concern for her well-being hadn't died almost $20k ago).
Also going to pick up the rest of her stuff from the house. Considering staying out of town and having friends at the house let her into the garage where her pile is.
