I know your D is struggling, how is your S holding up?
I have noticed that he wants to cuddle with me and H slightly more than usual. His LL is definitely Physical Touch and he loved to cuddle a lot before though...
And other than asking H two days ago if he broke up with that girl, and asking where he met her, he hasn't said a word about the situation since... (H reassured him he would never see that girl or any girl again).
Anyway, he has asked me to lie in our bed with him and H every night (I'm still in the guest room), and he insists that we BOTH have to put him to bed so we can tell he's looking for reassurance that mommy and daddy can be fixed. and are together at bedtime...
I really hope his age will prevent him from remembering too much.
My hope and guess is that it'll be a vague memory of something that got resolved and forgiven, no matter what else happens in your m...hope that's clear.
geez your son.. breaking my heart AND wanting to smile at the same time... rent a fav movie for him and make popcorn and his fav foods, and just hug him extra for ME please....what a cutie patootie little guy with a big heart and brain-just trying to figure out what HE can do to fix things...GEEZ
maybe let him feel he's helping, okay? I don't think that's a bad thing, is it?
I just want to reassure him so much...(no pressure Endeavor!! )
Once when our son was about 4 we were arguing in the car about direction...not a big fight or anything but traffic was loud so we were louder. S4 looked afraid & said "don't fight, talk it out!"
verbatim what we told SON to do with his playmate that week.
They hear & see more than we know.
Endeavor, no path and no choice you make is without obstacles.
just stay the course for your family with an open heart. I think the answer will be revealed in time.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
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