Here's the thing. These people care about you. And so, they are doing what they feel they need to do in order for you to have no regrets. They are trying to help you look at all sides, so that you can make decisions that are in your best interest.
And since you are so honest, I think they feel they should be totally honest with you.
It doesnt really matter what others are doing. What matters is you.
And we just want to be sure that you move forward on this journey in the most whole, healthy way.
Because if you dont do the rest of the work, you run the risk of some really big heartache down the road.
Tamf, I know most of these people personally. They have some of the biggest hearts I have ever seen.
They really do want what's best for you. And they will do whatever they have to do to get you there.
That really is the purpose here - to help and listen and challenge each other.
Sometimes its tough. But, the results are usually worth it.
