Don't bother telling her that you are changing for you UNLESS she comments on the changes.
Otherwise it's just more "See me now??" Less talking, more DOING. In fact, zero talk about changes you make is best or it'll look like tactics to get her back instead of changes for you that are permanent.
Why not speed up school if you are a sahd or it's at all possible? Okay so you are doing some gigs, I get that. But taking the slow road to the degree isn't really helping you. Go summers too, anything online as well. There are faster ways especially if you've been at this for 3 years already. It would symbolize a lot too. Just saying...
Good work, and remember the "math" of this consistent changes + sufficient time = change SHE can believe in.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
