From my perspective, H is not as done as he'd like to be, but that doesn't excuse his behavior and relationships. I see no shame in your game regardless of which direction you go and I can guess at the difficulty this must present.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
