at the mc session (or with your w, idk) tell her that the c you are not trying to fix the m
but you ARE trying to work on YOU, to grow and improve as a man and father.
You want to be your best self, etc. You can say you accept that she feels it's too late but these are changes you wanted to make anyhow, and "better late than never", etc.
BTW, you are only a year away from finishing school right? You can work at your career path and still play some venues pursuing your musical career too right?
I'm a L but also an aspiring actress. God help me if h "expects" me to "make it big"....I'm happy when I get paid and btw, I've got an MFA in it and am good.
But life happens, and even when you are great, there are no guarantees... Hang in there. And don't see yourself as a failure or she will too.
In the end, failing at parenthood is really the only type of failure that no other achievement can outweigh...
in other words, if I fail as a mother, nothing else I do will ever make up for it.
same goes for you. Don't forget that.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
