Take a good look at everything you were put through. Imagine your best friend or even your daughter been treated the way you were treated. Would you put the blame on them or would you be supportive and try to make them see REALITY ???
You didn't asked nor deserved any of this! None of us did. It's a misfortune that this tragedy hit each of us but dear god, do not feel responsible! In a way, i think our husband's departure is in fact a blessing because in the anger stage, life was unbearable. Be kind to yourself and pull away from the crazyness a bit! You need a break! Take care OF YOURSELF!!!!
