h was home 2 of the past 4 yrs. i have had him served twice but dismissed it cuz i couldnt go thru with it. H has never mentioned d. he left last time cuz i mentioned ow often and he didnt like me doing that i guess. he wouldnt call me after work and would go for lunch half mile away from ow house everyday. he wouldnt do anything to make me worry less and i didnt think that was right. the first yr he was back home was great , we spent a lot of time together and enjoyed each others company.