We have our second MC appointment tomorrow. The past week has been fairly decent, with only a couple minor misunderstandings. I've given her a hug a couple times when she was feeling down, but otherwise it continues to be hands off. One of my concerns is that she feels great about all this, and is looking forward to what she perceives as greener grass.
My birthday was Tuesday, and she told me that she didn't want to post to my FB because she didn't want to catch flack from my family. She still hasn't talked to them, and despite what I've told her, thinks my family all hates her. I gave her the advice about the current state of things, "Let it be", meaning don't worry about what other people think, do what you want to do concerning me. As with most things I say nowadays, it was shrugged off.
She mentioned that she is aware that after D, I will likely find someone relatively quickly, and she's okay with that. I've never mentioned anything like this, other than to say that it will be a while before I'm even looking, since I still have 3 years of full time school left. Again this is concerning for me, as it seems she is continuing to build up the walls around her to prevent her from seeing any other path than the one she chose a few months ago.
