Are there any midlife women who want daily sex?

[25yearsmlc]

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ssm, do you see why I feel confused? You say NOW that you have "fully connected" feelings...

and now you say you DO have touch, just not sexual.

Alright, so you really feel close to her, and you feel fully loved by her and loving for her. That's great.

IF you think not having sex isn't a big enough problem to be a dealbreaker,
I'd still say work on it for your sake.

BUT your next answer will be "already did. Tried EVERYTHING. Therapists made it worse..."

So, I'm at a loss. If you've "tried everything", (which of course I don't accept but will not argue) then really it's all about what's alright with you.

If it's alright never to have sex of any kind with anyone again,

or not worth rocking the boat,

then I guess you need to drop the issue and count your blessings. (note, I didn't say to leave her. i said 'rock the boat")

And if it's NOT alright for you to permanently give up on all sex, then you have to DO or SAY something new/different, don't you?