But imo, I SOMETIMES think mb is wrong if it decreases the sex drive of the person, AND then their partner is deprived of it later on b/c the person already took care of their own needs...
Make sense?
Perhaps she felt oddly uncomfortable knowing you were on your own 90% of the time, & thinking of whomever....idk.
You said there was no physical touch. But then you said There IS cuddling and kissing BUT THEN you said she resents you getting interested or fears you'll get aroused,
soooo is it happening or not? Is it just the same as "with a parent", as you wrote? And you seem now to defend the way it is, so what is it you want?
Are you okay with your sex life, as it is, or not?
How can WE help?
If You just want a sounding board for people who "relate", There are some forums for that here.
Youngatheart is into it and can probably direct you.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
