She is pregnant

[LearningPatience]

Sorry DG, it was a stereotypical response to country music/living in a trailer, etc. Nothing against the dogs themselves.

[Truegritter]

Country

You are going to get to where you need to be.

keep steppin'

You are not dealing with emotional giants here so to have that expectation will only hurt you...

They are really capable of a lot more damage in their confused state of mind.

That is not where you dwell.

So don't follow them down the rabbit hole.

Did she owe you more? Yup if she is in a M to you but she doesn't see that right now.

Your anger comes from the great injustice she has dealt you.

Only you can give her that power.

[♪CS♪]

Thank you Gritter. This really sank in with me.

I am walking a fine line right now.

Communicating with her so she has the information she needs to push this D forward.

Without putting the burden on me. Or doing the heavy lifting for her.

Staying true to myself through this communication. Not forgetting what I have learned here, and staying the man I have grown to love.

I will be put to the test through this.

Everything I have learned here. Is now being put to the ultimate test.

I like my chances.

[♪CS♪]

Up in the high country. So nice up here.

STBX freaked on me yesterday. I asked if she had told daycare yet. She said she will. I said whenever you're ready but that I would like to know so I am aware.

I just want to know when they know.

She freaked.

This doesn't affect D's care. Doesn't affect me. I am a pompous jerk. Her decisions were hard but she stands by them. She is proud of herself.

Ok....

Well, you are showing sweetie. They will see before too long. You can't hide this forever. I just don't want to be blindsided with questions without being prepared.

But ok sweetie.

You sound happy. You sound proud.

Peace baby.

Ok, back to our mini vaca this weekend. D is so cool. Acts like a little boy up here. Plays in the dirt. Chases bugs. She's a great camper.

Peace all.

[25yearsmlc]

yep...

happy and proud is exactly how she sounds....

oh, and a little crazy in denial too,

Hope she's getting her rest!!

God help OM"s wife...sheesh! Not your problem but we can send hugs HER way...

Back to YOU

carry on CS, carry on!

[LearningPatience]

CS, you've been an inspiration (and occasional 2x4 giver) to me, so I know you are going to come out of all of this smelling like a rose!

High country sounds like fun, glad D is playing in the dirt like a good little tomboy:)

And I noticed your nickname for stbx, sweetie. That's what I called my W too. Funny, haven't said or heard that name in a while...

Hang in there!

[In_Shock]

KEEP IT UP CS ----- YOU are the BETTER MAN. Trust me.

You have character. You are the better man. Stay on that high road, man.