Wow, DC, I feel like I am reading a dramatic novel, sometimes. Your W is making ME mad. I am glad you told her you would not report to her anything about om. Good for you. It's kinda strange, (but she doesn't see it)that she would even want you to find out and tell her if om is bad for her. She needs to see that not all men out in her new free world are going to be decent family men like you. And she needs to make up her own mind about them, and learn that the hard way.
Even though she called you and tried to make nice, be careful, it's just cake-eating. She wants om, and she wants to have you as her husband/best friend on the side. Kinda nasty sounding, huh? Be careful as she tries to pull you back in, as it's not for the right reasons.
You've laid it all on the line with her,; how you feel, what you need and want. She didn't seem to have any response to that.
Keep on with YOUR goals, and if she wants back in, she needs to work for it. vc
