lc, thank-you as always. I look forward to reading your posts because you're so peppy and cute, even though I don't know you BUT that's how I picture you.
25yearsmlc,
I understand. Questions not suggestions. Got it.
Although, I will disagree that my D16 is being overly dramatic. She's a sensitive kid. She was raw and emotional and needed some space. It was only for two days. I've heard the LBS on here posting about they stayed in bed all day, or cried all night, etc. I think she's doing the best she can with what has happened to her family...
THAT SAID, you are right. We need to move forward.
What now?
Retrovaille next month. I shared your thoughts with H on it so thank-you again for your posts. (Copied and pasted because I don't actually want him reading my threads.) Although, he did admit to reading the DB forum during all this but never knew I had a thread and he's not the type to look to carefully. Actually, I think he stuck to the A threads because he seems to use a lot of the lingo - the fog, affair withdrawal, how they're escape from pain and unhappiness, etc.
Anyway, according to the website the closet Retrovaille chapter was in the nearest major city which is about an hour away due to crazy traffic (no big deal because we both go in often for work) BUT now that we've registered, it turns out the coordinators live in our exact area AND the hotel location is even closer than we first thought. Most likely less than 20 minutes.
