If you cannot love yourself, how can you love someone else?
If you cannot forgive yourself, how can you forgive someone else?
If you cannot forgive, then you are living in the past...at least a part of you. You know what else is in your past? Your crappy marriage. : )
Beat yourself up a little bit. BUT, only enough to make you strive to do better. Do you best not to be that person, to not repeat the mistakes you made.
Forgiveness is also NOT forgetting.
Forgive yourself, but do not forget. Always be better then what you were.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
