From what I have read recently, and what you have put out there to read...
You spend a lot of time justifying why you "deserve" or "don't deserve " this or that...
What he is and isn't capable of...
You appear very unapproachable to him right now.
I'm sure his options are very diminished. And he comes to you , remembering all of the begging and pleading you did to him at the beginning of his crisis...
And there you stand now, with your mind changed (for whatever reason ).
Cold , Hard , and Unforgiving toward him.
THAT is your soapbox...
THAT is your judgement of what you feel he is or isn't capable of....
Just remember that his words and actions do not match the same as your words and actions do not match right now either....
