Thank-you for sharing and for taking the time to post in my thread. I truly appreciate it.
And I do agree with you, Kalni in that my H seems to be reacting with great remorse. Compared to the other sitches I have read, I suppose it is surprising that he trying desperately to fix this mess rather quickly, and there is certainly some hope in his actions SINCE the A was revealed. BUT I'm still in shock so I don't truly believe anything that comes out of his mouth and find myself bracing for another bomb. After all, he has been lying his face off and deceiving me for over a year. I'd have to be pretty naive to start believing everything he says in only a week. Consistency and reassurance is what I need but I have no doubt you understand these feelings all to well, so I really appreciate you weighing in here and sharing your story.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
Piecing and overcoming infidelity are the hardest things I ever had to do. I am still working hard to let go of the pain. Unfortunately, some things lost are difficult to recover and some will never come back. It takes patience, strength, control of your thoughts/triggers etc etc but the result is the greatest example you can give your kids of how you fight for something so precious. And I find this kind of love, the realistic, hard gained love to be true love. True love conquers everything and if you do love your H and he loves you, you can be that.
If I can help in any way in particular, let me know. Take for granted that I have felt how you feel and I am still in the process of healing... Stay strong Kalni
Thanks so much for your support, Kalni. I have been slowly making my way through one of your threads this morning and you are very strong, but I can also sense the pain in your words. Many of your posts gave me hope but others brought me to tears.
I am not looking forward to this journey. But I will continue to read your threads in the coming days because I have decided at this time that I will tell no one in my personal life so talking with people online who have been through this is my only lifeline at the moment. I am so sorry that you are dealing with this as well. Thanks again, E
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Originally Posted By: Kalni
Oh, and I am not a native speaker so fogive my mistakes... K
You express yourself very well and I did not notice any mistakes.
