been gone so long couldn't find my thread! lol!

[TAMF]

I come here to vent and then I get SLAMMED. Ok, I get it. but sometimes people go to far and hurt my feelings. I am always nice and positive when I post to people.

I guess if I "craft" my posts better so that I am saying what everyone wants hear I could, but instead I write what I am feeling. and for that I get crucified.

I am not saying to everyone that I don't want you to be honest but gosh darnit, do you have to be outright mean and hurt my feelings? I respond much better to positive motivation.

and yes, if I can't handle what is being said to me, I could easily not post any more. but this site has been instrumental in my process. but the way I am feeling right now, it is worse for me to come here because it causes me sadness. when everyday right now is a struggle for happiness.

Right now guys, be honest but tread softly. I am having a really hard time right now and I need support not nastiness.