"Spunky Punky"....Kinda has a ring to it. Wouldn't you agree?
I have been thinking about you and your sitch and I initially resisted posting this but after some thought I figured you would only use it if you agreed with it.
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D25 told me she had text convo with XH
From where I sit, you seem to be trying to detach but everyone else seems to keep dragging you in. Why not, tell your D, SIL and everyone else to stop mentioning how upset or disappointed they are with H. You are NOT a sounding board for everyone. Right now Pun, maybe you need to be a little more selfish. You have been through hell and this time, right now, should be about YOU. I do not think you need to be confrontational about it, rather just let the fam know that you really would prefer not to hear about XH and his antics.
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"If you only knew"
Justification!
XH is going to continue to justify his actions. You should now this by now. He is going to come up with HIS reasons. They are his. You know better. Remember...the TRUTH will always come out.
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It just hurt my feelings
Feel the hurt and use the anger as a shield. Use it to help you detach even further.
FWIW, I am sorry that you are going through this.
Now get back to being spunky will ya!
((((Punkin))))
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
