like making the best decision on the divorce settlements.
In the business world ya know what happens when the work becomes too much? It is “outsourced”. What usually happens is that you bring in a third party, explain to them what it is YOU really want to accomplish and then you hire them to do all of the heavy lifting. In terms of divorce…that is what YOUR attny is suppose to do. They are not emotionally involved. The attny job is to advocate for what YOU want.
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what to do about my house
Sell if ya want, rent if ya can. FWIW, I rented mine. I do not want to live in it..at least not now.
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his retirement
Something for the “outsource” provider to address. I would assume that you would be entitled to probably half..where you take it or not is up to you.
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things that come up that I once depended on my H for.
Simply put….YOU WILL FIGURE IT OUT. Who sets prices for your business? You or H? Who runs your business? You or H? Give yourself some credit!
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I dont need him
I actually do not think YOU believe this ^^^ . When you do, you will not worry so much about the what, when, why and how.
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Starting over with someone new
End something before you start something else. Why are you even thinking about it…no wait…I did the same thing….Actually stop thinking about it.
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I find it hard to try to even date, much less be in a relationship.
Then don’t.
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God says he has plans to prosper me and not harm me, plans to give me hope and a future
Believe it and ACT on it.
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
