guys...I told you that I am facing my STBX and dealing. You all told me I should - friggin browbeated me actually - so I am facing and dealing until I am done.

Like I said, I hate it. I am pissed. but it needs to be done.

Next question you both are going to ask...

WHY do you hate it? WHY do you let him affect you?

blah blah blah

Not letting them affect us gets easier, but there is no way the Sh!t he is putting me through can't affect me. I would be an emotional zombie.

So I am dealing...

TAMF
m:41
xh:41
T: 20
M: 15
D: 16
D: 14
Bomb dropped: 7/3/10
separated: 7/15/10
H moved in to new apt. with OW: 7/1/11
divorced: 8/26/12