Nothing is "wrong" with him. Does he make mistakes in the DB process? Yes. Could he do better? Yes. A lot better? Yes.
You really need to separate the person from the act. I know you are trying to help. But Geez
Honestly, it doesn't bother me. I chalk it up to tough love. I'm doing dumb stuff and I need a kick in the head sometimes. Thanks for sticking up for me. I'm just grateful inhale people willing to help me out.