We went after we had a fight while piecing. I was no longer in the "since h apologized it's fine complacent phase..."
When we looked it up, it was in our area the same weekend as our anniversary...geez universe, we hear you!
It was pleasantly surprising but give it the whole time. I mean the first night I thought "Okay, fine..we'll see" but by the last day I saw and felt some deep movement within both of us.
Trust the process.
There are team couples there who will share their stories. Some of them have been through some stuff that is even tougher or wackier than yours and for us it gave me hope b/c I figured if THAT couple could make it, we could
(one couple had the h having a full blown affair while their child was dying and did die...another couple had an out of wedlock baby, bankruptcies, etc
and yet here they were, these couples who had been through FIRE, and THEY turned their m's around and made it THE priority in their lives...amazing really).
I'm happy for you. It'll help no matter what.
Good luck
(( ))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
