Can my blah blah blah pt 2?

[a girl]

In doing more reading, I find myself convinced that STBX is a "stealth narcissist" - it explains why he's "done this all before".

I know that it doesn't change anything, but it does help me understand - and anticipate - things. I actually feel better than I have in 2 months. I'd been beating myself up, saying 'How could he discard everything we had? How can he say the same things to her that he said to me? How can he toss away his son?'

Well. Because that's what they do.