Yesterday got heated between us. My attorney asked about our debts and I listed them all out in email and stated that it was my opinion that W should take quite a bit of them. My opinion got back to her somehow and she was livid. She texted and called me quite a bit and it wasn't pleasant at all.
We quit talking later in the day and this morning the contact has been limited, but cordial.
Ugh...not fun.
Are Friday night's plans still a go?
It's so bizarre to me that you two are "dating" yet still moving forward with the divorce. Has she not mentioned at all putting it on hold for the time being? Are the two of you able to discuss and agree on things outside of your lawyers and staying out of court (therefore saving $$$)? That is what my H and I did; we came close to having a hearing a time or two over some things we were bickering about, but we ended up agreeing on the kids and $ on our own. That kept our frustration with each other to a minimum. Once we agreed on those big-ticket items for the time we are separated, we have been able to put the actual divorce process on hold and see what happens between us. Like my H and me, you and your wife don't seem completely convinced that a divorce is the one and only answer for you. I don't want you to pursue her and scare her off with R talk, but I also don't want to see the two of you getting along great and enjoying time together while your divorce is going through. Does that make sense?
I hope the two of you are still able to go to the concert tomorrow night and have a good time. If not, have a good time doing something else...not sitting at home alone wishing you were there!
