It does seem like there's still some sort of attachment on her behalf. I think y'all are right, I think she does want freedom and family at the same time.
I think the theory of her wanting that other guy and it falling through may be a good possibility. They did trade inappropriate texts earlier in the summer. She denies anything physical happened, but I am just not sure. I do know that now he has a girlfriend and that my W's contact with him has dropped significantly. It's not totally gone because his kids are friends with our D, and he's been a good friend of both of us for five years now.
Yesterday got heated between us. My attorney asked about our debts and I listed them all out in email and stated that it was my opinion that W should take quite a bit of them. My opinion got back to her somehow and she was livid. She texted and called me quite a bit and it wasn't pleasant at all.
We quit talking later in the day and this morning the contact has been limited, but cordial.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
