David, even though our stich are different, I think we are at the same early stages of DBing. Begging and pleading ain't helping us. We are pushing our W's further away. I know it is hard when you are scared and confused and want results fast. But I guess that is not how it works. Doing things for yourself sounds weird to me also but I'm trying to do it. Hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”