"If you want her to come back AND if you want to get through this misery, YOU have to do things for you. It's counter intuitive when you are doing things just for YOU, but that's the thing that attracts them back." From Faith...


These words are pure gold. Live them. I'm doing my best to follow this as well. NOT easy but necessary.

Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed