You've had the negative thought disorder for a long time now. Hurts you AND your cause.
Fix that b/c it's just not healthy. Like it's neurotic and you need to work on it. Did you get some anti anxiety meds?
Please don't blow this with your thought disorder b/c that is what it is.
You want too much reassurance from her, again forgetting, that it's YOUR job to comfort HER... She's the injured party...
How have YOU changed since this all happened?
I only hear the same destructive thought process so I don't know any 180's or GAL that you are doing.
What are they?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016