Totally attentive. When I'm in the room, I'm actually in the room. I'm engaged in conversation. Listen to her attentively and ask questions no matter how much she is complaining. Smiling more, more confident (and I am), seeing friends, going to events that I would have passed on before because of her or kids. Went solo to a wedding (something I haven't done in our whole relationship), learning a new instrument, networking, no complaints, staying positive when she gets crazy.
