I think I have figured out my stand point on the EA. I am going to let it continue as I know it's a rebound and may end but if it turns physical, I am not going to be standing here like some slackjawed moron. I am going to have to dump the house and the marriage and my poor kids will be the ones who suffer - but I am not a saint and cannot imagine forgiving an affair - especially knowing beforehand.
Yesterday she was texting and giggling to the OM in our bedroom with me and the kids right there. Totally disrepectful. Still working out what to do on that. Saw a therapist today -she's awesome. She's not sure what to do about the texting either - said it's extremely disrepectful and very immature.
