Originally Posted By: ssmguy
Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
I don't understand women who use withholding sex as a negotiating tactic


For some women who don't like sex in the first place, I guess it's a two-for-one deal. They avoid the sex they don't want, and then they get something else for avoiding it.


Not liking sex at all, makes no sense. It's like not wanting to taste your food.

I am not saying that there aren't men/women with sexual problems and issues but that is it, it's a problem for them. Or their spouse. Not a healthy or normal thing.

Ssm, since you make the unusual claim that ALL ELSE is great in the marriage ,

yet you seem to agree that she must be angry at you b/c why else would she deny you even cuddling and ANY form of intimacy?....

the questions remaining are-

is this acceptable? What do you want?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
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I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

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