My questions are just that; questions. Not suggestions. But I pose them b/c i think they need answering before you decide.
Nor do I think your d has had enough time to process all this but I would ask her if she thinks her friend's family is truly so much better off now that they divorced...
and imo, she sounds a bit overly dramatic to not come out of her room for days. What's that about? But that's just me.
You've been thru a LOT...more than the average "OP" announcement. I get that...
and the kids finding out stinks more...way more.
BUT
Per the DBing way...okay, so what NOW?
HE seems to get it, and he sure seems to be doing the work.
How useful is it for us to keep harping on how bad the D or you have it
if this is a pro marriage site?
That's my point.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
